Once you find your position on the bike, which could take a while, and which includes seat height and tilt,(most would say it should be level) and fore-aft/lay back, then you can better decide if you need a different seat. They do come in different shapes and sizes which could fit your anatomy better than the stock seat. It can be a matter of hit and miss even with descriptions/reviews of the product as you have discovered, so many shops have demo seats you can try and soft gelpads to help measure your sit bones width. If there are riders out there who tell you they experience absolute zero seat discomfort, I'd be surprised. There's always some degree of discomfort IMO.