Agree with Lazyass that it shouldn't matter what it looks like as long as you're satisfied.

Also, remember there are a lot of women's bikes with stems 80 mm long or even shorter in addition to narrower bars which works tend to exacerbate any "tiller effect". The bigger issue could be weight distribution, i.e. less weight over the front wheel. But it's not a huge change in length. My bet is that you'll be fine.