I agree, it can be a conundrum. I dislike when someone hammers to catch up to me, passes, then slows down. I don't draft, but I'll hang back 10 feet and wait for a chance to pass. I, unlike many of you evidently, could care less if someone drafts me. Even if they half-wheel it, the guy who hits his front wheel's going down, and it ain't me. I've had some good situations where I allow someone to draft, then they take a pull and we work together for a few miles.

My only other issue is when I catch someone, because it's natural to try to catch someone when they're ahead, but we're riding about the same pace afterwords. I usually don't pass, or draft, but I've had people take issue that I'm hanging out 10 or 15 feet back there. I know not why...