Thank you for the suggestions. I liked the adamo prologue, but weirdly not in aero position. I could ride it upright forever, but 10 min max in aero. I am currently looking for a Cobb Plus. It is still a narrower saddle but has the cutout. It is an ugly ass saddle, but at this point I am willing to try it. My former housemate that races 70.3s and full ironman races swears by the Cobb plus because she went through 6 or 7 saddles before finally settling on that one. Not an apples to apples comparison, but gives me hope.