1) Older Bikes use a Non latching part, you can buy an Upgrade
Newer ones the way you turn the suspension bung can do that Or if turned otherwise will stay latched .
2) yes that is how they are the angle is for the Kickstand fold.
3) The Mudguard is a thermoplastic , maybe the struts are letting it bend inward , bend those first. Plastic will Break .
4) Your Lowest cost Brompton Bag is the basket.. I am clueless to your Backpack specifics .
Give more details
I have Used A Messenger bag with a waist Band, and clipped the waist belt around the bag frame .
Then I got a Brompton Ortlieb O Bag They are a specialist in Bags that keep stuff Dry.
5) so you figured out #1, already ?
Your Brompton Dealer will sell you all the spare parts you need ..
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