I don't want special treatment. Just treat me like traffic since I am in the road. That means the right of way at a 4 way stop includes me. It also means you pass me in the other lane. One of the reasons that I wear spandex, jerseys, etc is to alert drivers that I am not just some guy riding his bike in the road that doesn't know what they are doing. I think that often times drivers perception of a cyclist is what they look like and how they ride. Take the lane confidently, ride like you know what you are doing, and look the part. It sucks that it would come down to this but that is just how some parts of the country are.