Originally Posted by
somedude5151
I got a Specialized Allez about 6 months ago. I thought road biking would be fun and it seemed like it would suit me but as the time goes on it seems to that it's really not my thing. I like biking but I'm thinking of getting a more mellow bike I can just ride around and play with instead of seriously riding and stuff. Here's the problem, my dad helped me get the road bike and he even got me pedals for christmas. I don't know how to tell him I want to sell my bike and get a new one. I know this is serious first world problems but could you guys please help me come up with an approach so he wont be mad or whatever. Thanks
Maybe your dad would enjoy helping you discover what kind of bike you will use and enjoy more.
He seems to have shown a loving interest in getting you the first bike. (If only we all had dads who showed a loving interest.) Thank him for showing a loving interest, and by inviting him into the process of helping you finding a bike better suited to your taste/lifestyle, I think it will likely soften or remove any hurt or anger he could feel by wanting to get rid of the Allez.
People get mad whey they feel their love is being rejected. So just make a clear distinction between your dad's interest in you biking (which you are not rejecting) and the bike that's just not a perfect fit.
I like to stop and lollygag when I ride, look around. I originally bought my bike for commuting to work..... so my commutes take a long time and often involve a stop in the park to enjoy the sunrise!
