Originally Posted by
John E
I hope you have alerted your family regarding your wishes, so that you are not given care beyond what you want. (The health system's default is to keep everyone alive as long as possible.) Faced with a diagnosis of terminal lung cancer as his brother -- my father -- was suffering through the final throes of pancreatic cancer, my uncle moved from Arizona to Oregon because the latter state gives terminally ill patients at least some control over their own lives, without loved ones having to worry about being prosecuted for aiding and abetting a suicide. When following instructions given in "Final Exit," make sure you do not expose your friends and relatives to potential very serious legal problems, as in Barbara Mancini's case.

for your concern/advice and YES matters have been put in place including relocation if/when necessary in the future. For those of us who truly believe in the control of our own destiny it is mandatory to have all T's crossed and i's dotted. Frank discussions with loved one's are a priority to having them understand desires and wishes.