Originally Posted by
WhyFi
I shouldn't read too much in to it? My point is that you shouldn't read too much in to it - so much so that I really don't see a point in trying. You mention comparing yourself in gaming and sport... but those are instances where the participants have implicitly or explicitly agreed to competition. While you're busy patting yourself on the back for turning yourself inside out to catch someone's wheel, they may be in the middle of a z2 ride or at the end of a century; there's no way for you to compare yourself to someone else with only your data point.
If you're in full spandex on a $5000+ carbon bike out in public, it's completely reasonable for the public to assume you are currently on a race-mode pro training ride, and use you as a measuring stick.
Find a velodrome or a closed course if one is uncomfortable with that societal agreement.