I should not have bothered answering the posts that explained all the reasons I should not have said anything. Perhaps the critics who ask me to assume the best could assume that I meant no harm. To remind you all, I merely said the posts would be easier to read. I did not say it upset me or that s/he was less of a person. I could just as well criticize others for assuming the poster is male, even though I assume they had no sexist agenda.