This is why everybody needs 2 bikes.
Why not get a Fetish Cycles frame off of eBay? They're cheap as heck.
http://cgi.ebay.com/2006-Fetish-Cycl...QQcmdZViewItem You'd have something to ride while you wait, and once the waiting is over you could keep the frame and save it until after your wedding when you'll have a little money to put some cheap parts on it and make it a beater.