Over the years I've figured some things out to make myself feel safer on the road - some from what I've seen and experienced on the day-to-day commute others from reading forums like this or talking to other bikers. So, for instance, for my bike, things like pairs of front and rear lights, ample side reflectors; or bike wear like high-viz clothing; or my specific route to and from work or out running errands (avoiding certain intersections or streets, or even riding on the sidewalk over specific stretches). Not to say this is what everyone needs, just what I need to feel like I'm giving myself the best chance to make it out and back safely.

What I'm experiencing for the past few years or so though is that this has had a negative impact on my love of recreational cycling (road specifically). In other words, now that I have an idea of what is "safe" I can't help but feel that when I'm out on the road recreationally, usually on a different bike and therefore different purpose/setup, I just don't feel safe and don't enjoy myself like I used to.

Anyone else experience this too? Does it ever resolve itself? I like mountain biking but where I live I can't hop on my bike right out the door and find a trail.