Post links , on your narrowed choices..
I just have a Bike Friday , their built wheels probably cost more than you may want to pay ..
given you are saying you only spending $500. on the bike..
What hub you want? Shimano has 8 (Nexus & Alfine)& 11 speed Alfine IGH but there you need a 135 width
Sturmey Archer is offering several options ..
Then there's the whole Derailleur drivetrain sector..
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