Why ask advice if you're going to have a belligerent attitude towards anyone not telling you what you want to hear?

If pressed to choose only between these the two options, I'd go with Stradalli - there's a better chance of getting someone on the other end of the line in the event that something goes wrong; I want someone with some kind of accountability. That said, rather than either of these options, I'd keep an eye on closeouts on the UK sites - I've picked up 3T carbon bars for a little over $100 on PBK and the like.