Hey, I'm experiencing similar issues -- haven't been on a bike since January and while I've improved am still experiencing pretty bad symptoms down there. I'm also trying to adjust to the possibility of never riding again. A neurologist did diagnose it as pudendal neuralgia, and I am doing daily physical therapy to try to address it, but I'm not optimistic. From my understanding is that once you've had nerve trauma how you recover is unpredictable and definitely not guaranteed. I hope you've seen a neurologist and pyshio to see if any of that helps. I empathize with you!