My experience as well.
Back in the day, folks would left & right hook you like you were vermin, drive up behind and honk because you were using their road (with an empty lane beside them!) and buzz you like they got points.
These days, I have small traffic incidents because somebody throws the concept of right-of-way out the window trying to be 'nice to the cyclists'.
I live in PA. I have noticed that the 4' passing law seems to have made a difference to many.
And trying to be nice does cause some problems for those of us who anticipate that people will take their turns. I know they are trying to be helpful, but it can create confusion in many cases. Same with pedestrians who don't assert their rights at crosswalks. Frustrating when I am both cycling and driving.