I have been married for 44 years and cycling is like every other aspect of married life. For one thing , my wife loves cycling as much as I do . The only issue is her physical disability that keeps her from joining me most of the time. At 64 years old(soon to be 65) , I still work a lot of hours and only ride one long ride a week which she is OK with. I squeeze in lunch rides when possible as I am self employed . We have our issues from time to time but we are honest with each other and that makes it work. I think cycling is like anything else , if it is important to you , you fit it in. We were both bike freaks when we were young , riding pretty much everywhere together in the seventies. We gave up driving cars for 2+ years when we were in our 20's and that was terrific except in the rain! Joe joesvintageroadbikes.wordpress