Just went through the same thing and weighed out all the pros and cons and ended up with a Diverge with the future shock! I love being able to go fast on roads and then just turn onto a side road and just cruise along a river etc! The versatility and ride comfort can’t be beat on a gravel bike. I use mine for weekly road group rides and periodic gravel rides (just starting out) and only thing I do is change tire pressure with what I’m doing!