You'll find a wide range of people in the world. Keep in mind that the people on the forums are not paid, although moderation my impact the overall nature of the forum.
Most of the people here are supportive, but you'll often get advice that goes beyond your original expectations. And, if you don't want to hear the advice, then just ignore it and move on.
I'm not sure why links to the Rxxx website have been banned here, as well as elsewhere. I presume at one time they had fairly malicious spamming. But, perhaps you've found a reason to seek a forum that meets your expectations.