Learning and understanding different components and standards can be daunting at first. I salute you for asking questions here, I've done it slot myself.

Here's a thread I started in another sub that might be useful:
Help with gravel wheels
https://www.bikeforums.net/cyclocross-gravelbiking-recreational/1201704-help-me-select-new-gravel-wheelset.html#post21488629
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