Have you had this bike for very long? Have you ridden bikes often in the last few years, or is this your first bike in a long time?

I'm guessing that you might simply need a stem with a higher angle, which would raise the bars and bring them back to you a bit. Or a handlebar with a higher rise. Or both a higher angle stem and a higher rise handlebar.

This is one of those situations where I like easy to adjust old school quill stems better than the clamp on threadless steerer stems.