xTROLLx!
Yeah, sure you're "not preachy". And this thread was actually going to accomplish something other than a bunch of boneheaded remarks from the terminally dissatisfied.
There are much worse ways to destroy ones' self than having a few beers and riding a bike around. We all make our own choices. Find validation within yourself, kiddies.
And for god's sake, don't be afraid to change your mind.