I wish you luck. I spent a few years on a prominent dating app, I dated a nice lady who said she liked hiking and biking. We hiked and biked together but she never transitioned to riding as the primary activity (which everyone knows is much easier on your body). She told me to go back to the dating app, find a better match. Now I'm with a woman who considers daily 36 miles to be our "short ride", and regularly suggests the 52 mile ride. 200 miles per week is our training target. Remember, you can already go bike riding by yourself. Do you need a cook and a maid, or a bicycling companion? Personally, I can live without a cook and a maid.