i dont think anyone will hold it against you. it seems like this whole mod ruling runs into some sticky problems with proving culpability

situation A
1) user finds ebay sale, which, unbeknownst to her, is being sold by a BF member.
2) user posts ebay sale

situation B
1) BF member contacts other BF member, telling her to post his ebay listing
2) user posts ebay sale

the end result, presumably, is the same, and as long as no record of the communication exists, there's no way to prove that the person didn't just find it on ebay. i understand why the mods want to not allow situation B, but it seems nearly impossible to prevent without removing situation A as well