Please. Chill. Ceya made his own bed and has something going on in his mind. Whatever is going on there, it's got nothing to do with me, this forum, or whatever was going on in that thread. If he leaves, it's of his own volition. No one's mentioned anything about a BAN or anything close to it but him. So if you must be angry, get angry at him. I guess mentally, he's banning himself. Go off on him.
As far as insider moderators, we choose moderators partially based on the number of forums they frequent. Very few members in this forum seem to leave this forum and participate elsewhere. That (in our eyes) would make you less of a valuable contributor as a moderator. There are other attributes we look at, but flexibility and a willingness to frequent other forums and interact with other members is always part of the discussion.
Koffee