Joined: Feb 2016
Posts: 1,860
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From: SE Wisconsin
Bikes: Lemond '01 Maillot Jaune, Lemond '02 Victoire, Lemond '03 Poprad, Lemond '03 Wayzata DB conv(Poprad), '79 AcerMex Windsor Carrera Professional(pur new), '88 GT Tequesta(pur new), '01 Bianchi Grizzly, 1993 Trek 970 DB conv, Trek 8900 DB conv
As Iride mentions, if you're new to riding..you need to toughen up your butt..it takes miles..after 3-5 rides things should get better.
Other than that, you sound like a classic customer for a Brooks saddle. I've picked up several used off of ebay for a reasonable price. Look for used saddles that look new on top, very little or no dimples from riding. Buy a used one, if it doesn't work, you can pretty much get your money back re-selling it.