Marriage can be tough ... but if before marriage a person shows inflexibility, jealousy, mistrust, a controlling mindset, and an unwillingness to accept his or her partner however he or she is .... that is a bad relationship. Sorry, but that is exactly what makes for a very unhealthy relationship. The views you claim your proposed bride expresses are irrational and unhealthy. She needs a lot of help herself to get on an even keel. And you don't need to be spending the rest of your life trying to accommodate an unreasonable person---in my opinion.

Maybe this is your karma and you are simply doomed to a life of unhappiness with an unbalanced woman. I don't know.

I do know that I would tell Anyone, man or woman, not even to Date a person with those personality traits---- I know this because I Have, on many occasions, told people to avoid such relationships or to get out of such relationships when they were in them. Distrust, jealousy, possessiveness, and a need to control are all hallmarls of a person who needs a Lot of self-reflection and self-cultivation.

Forget cycling. Imagine that you cannot have any friends, cannot leave the house ever for any reason unless she goes with you, and even when you go out with her she is always accusing you of infidelity---accuses you of looking at other women, sending invisible signals, flirting ... even when all you do is stare at your wife. if that is the life you want, go for it.

Honestly sir, and I say this with the greatest compassion---YOU need to grow up a whole lot before you consider marrying anyone. If you do not have a strong sense of self, and do not have your own life to live, then you cannot bring anything worthwhile to a relationship.

That said, there are a lot of weak, sick people in co-dependent relationships, each enabling the other's worse aspects and slowly destroying each other, living in increasing misery until both simply rot and die. If that is your goal, no problem. It is your life, do as you see fit.