aclinjury I'll tell you what I paid for everything not including customs taxes and shipping since that will change drastically depending on your location.
The frameset was free worldwide shipping at the time I ordered but I ended paying something like $9. The base cost for the frame was $799 and the fork $249. That's the cheapest they sell and then I added on a host of extra features like internal routing, thru axles, tapered fork, custom graphics ect....total for the frameset was $ 1,292.92.
Then I bought basically the cheapest components I could find with good reviews with the plan on upgrading anything I wasn't happy with either because of quality, performance, comfort, weight or appearance.
I guess I'll include tools also since that was included in the building process but not things I already owned like Park Tool bike grease and hex keys .
Viaron handle bar tape $8.71
Revival Zone Saddle $10.40 (not loving this saddle)
UNO bike stem $14.03
UNO seat post $18.64
UNO handle bars 440mm $19.33
Seatpost clamp $2.16
ZTTO headset 42mm 52mm $14.27
ZERAY ZP-108S MTB pedals $22.33 (work very well after some adjustments of the tension screws)
SENSAH SRX PRO groupset..this was a bundle package from the seller including Sensah R/L shifter, Sensah rear derailleur, ZRACE rear cassette 11-52T (a bit on the heavy side but I can climb up a wall in the 52T cog), ZRACE chain, ZRACE 44T chainring and crankset, ZRACE BSA bottom bracket for $207.40
ZRACE BR-002 cable actuated hydraulic disc brake calipers for $44.95. DO NOT ORDER THESE! They are horrible and I've already ordered some TEKTRO MD-C550 replacement calipers for $128. I got refunded for the ZRACE brakes without having to send them back.
ZTTO bottom bracket wrench $3.98
Cassette removing tool $2.15
Bottle cages $1.93
Chain master links (not really needed for this build but I take them on the road with me in case of a chain break which I've never had lol) $2.50
Chain breaker tool $2.99
Chain master link tool $2.79
Torque wrench $37.98
ZTTO Thru axles $6.75 each (I ordered two sets - first were the wrong size - sent them back and got a refund).
RISK Magnetic internal routing tools $3.46
Brake cables front and rear $2.38 and $2.68
Cable housings $1.50 per meter I think it was
50 cable housing end caps $1.11
Spacers for fork $1.60
Bottom bracket tool $10.12
MAXXIS Rambler 120 TPI tires 45mm and 50 mm $31.87 each (I have them set up tubeless and really like these tires so far)
Shimano center lock disc rotors 160mm $10 each
SPEED (company name I think) cycling shoes $40.02 - these are great shoes, no Velcro, easy to put on and take off, comfortable and look great. I'll have to see how they hold up after a long ride.

All of the above I ordered from Aliexpress

Ebay
50 cable end caps $1.32

Wheelset - Fulcrum Racing 7 DB Gravel Wheelset - 700c from Merlin Cycles. I don't remember what I paid offhand but the same wheelset is still there for $235.69 (currently out of stock but they were before and restocked). I'm happy with the Fulcrum wheels on my road bike and these are living up to my expectations, very happy with them so far.
Bought some tubeless fluid, valve cores and extra cable housing locally and then spent $120 or so at my local bike mechanic to fix all of my amateur mistakes. Total cost? I don't know, add it up lol. It came to approximately $2000 for the full build not including shipping costs and customs taxes which added about another $500. Of course everything is a little cheaper if you already own the tools required and don't have to pay a mechanic to help you out.