If you want durable, the fingerless M-Pact gloves by Mechanix are awesome! I have been using these for about 5 years now and only on my second pair. I mostly use these while mountain biking but often on the road also. When I used to commute to work I wore only these gloves.

https://www.mechanix.com/us-en/impac...5_color=covert

If you want decent durability and good shock absorption for your hands, the new cycling gloves by Bionic are really good. These are what I've been using all summer this year and are holding up really well, even with multiple washings.

https://www.bionicgloves.com/Bionic-...2=3&custcol3=1

The quality of both of these gloves is way above even high-priced "Cycling gloves" by the major brands. I've owned them all over the years and like you, I hate spending good money for gloves that don't last. If you favor durability over shock absorption, go with the Mechanix.