I finally got enough posts to allow me to show pictures. These are our bikes on NBD. I outlined the changes I made above. The biggest difference in my wifes' was to change her tires to Rhombus Pros running tubeless. She has had a few crashes and wanted to get more control on the rough gravel roads that make up 90% of our riding. I'm not ready to give up my pathfinder pros yet, although I wish they were 42s and not 38s.