If you ever change your mind and decide to try dropbars again, a shorter stem could have helped you. I'm about the same age as you and properly positioned drops, height above seat and seat to bars distance, will make all the difference.

obviously can't see your bike or know your physical realities, but properly positioned drops can be very comfortable.

in any case, welcome to the world of trying out different handlebars and figuring out stuff. Most of us have been down this route.