You need a stem that has no extension built into in. The Satori has an extension and shouldn't be used on carbon, per the bike mfg. You preload the same as with any threadless stem.
https://www.amazon.com/Kalloy-Adjust.../dp/B07QKXLFQK
If this is not going to get the bars high enough, then you need to swap out your fork for one with an aluminum (steel?) steerer.
John