Originally Posted by debade

l think we are mostly in agreement. Let me explain. If invited to a friend’s for a party, you are expected to share conversation and such. There are roles for guests too. If you go to dinner with a take away box, you are really not part of the get together.

I am delighted to host our guests and to lessen their financial burden. Most are on the road a long time. But, I think their role as guest is as important as my role as host. Perhaps this explanation clarified my original comment.