Holding on to anger, outrage or other consuming thoughts is like drinking poison, hoping someone else will die. Be glad your son has his health, a job/career and the life experience of doing something to the best of his ability; which will pay dividends when he faces tough times. There are people here who have children facing harsh lives because of health problems, addiction, depression ect. Be happy you got one out of the nest successfully, instead being mad about something that doesn't matter anymore. Somewhere, this very day, someone's kid didn't get a clinical drug trial that could save their life.
Now THAT'S unfair.
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Last edited by nomadmax; 04-26-23 at 10:35 AM.