I've also been in this long enough to know that I can't solve all the problems individually or immediately - the best riding position I can find pretty much eliminates perineal abrasion and lower back pain, and keeps my body weight balanced above the BB axis - those are the priorities. I don't just "tilt up (or down) the saddle." I edge the nose up or down just a little bit at a time until it feels right, then I ride a bit to see if it needs a height adjustment, then double check the tilt again, iterating as necessary. Once these points are set I can adjust bar tilt and stem height, and sometimes bar reach if I have enough spare stems in The Box. I usually can't feel bar reach errors until I've been back on the bike for an hour or so, anyway. So, I was trying to convey a little of the techniques combined with a sort of orderly iteration I use to achieve my balance. I find the same process works for a wide range of different saddles I've used.

While I phrased my advice as a universal, I know it is not that way for all of us, at least not my statements about saddle position. I just wanted to communicate some of the basics of height versus angle, because there was a lot of talk about just getting the tilt, or just the height, and not talking about how two variables (and additional variables) might affect each other. You are clearly the expert on your own fit. As I come back from Covid I'll again become the expert on my fitting, but meanwhile I have my methodology for setting up, and I can share that with others.