Hard to believe that's actually what eBay wants to charge for the shipping. The actual amount is often very different than the 'estimated' amount done at time of posting.
If you want the frame, ask him to BIN at the discounted price with NO shipping and then send him a label from BikeFlights or PirateShip once it's packed up and you know the box weight and dimensions.
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