I see three types and sizes of stems. The profile seems to have a lot more rise than the Velo Orange 90' so it will give you a bit more upright position than the one from Ali Express, which looks really short in reach compared to the others.

While we all want our bikes to look appealing, especially to others IMHO when it comes to bars and stems your comfort should be more important than how others think of your stem.
I try and stick to Nitto B115 bars, with a 25.4 clamp area which allows me to use a Nitto Hybrid style stem to sit up a bit and take some pressure off my hands. This black stem on my Ugly Betty is a bit taller than on my other bikes but gets the job done.


A silver stem certainly has a more appealing look.

While not elegant a threaded to threadless adaptor is a solution and allows you fool around with hight and length without retaping the bars

I use a little section of hose to sort of hide the real skinny quill part and make it look more even.