Is the frame/fork set road worthy and safe to ride, even after the mentioned repairs needed? In my mind, the damage to the fork would/will always be in my mind. Just knowing of the potential for catastrophic failure would absolutely deter me from riding and/or ever selling damage to another person. But that is just me. That said...

If it were not for the fork damage, that ding - DING - would be the best thief deterrent money could provide ((short of a darn good lock, locked to a big dog). That is the sort of bike I used to commute to and from work for many years. Looks like poo poo but rides just fine.