those are Basic Avid rotors, and are not "too big".
the wavy circumference is to reduce squealing.
i have never seen a "165mm" rotor for bicycles, EVER.
there are 140, 160, 180, and 200mm rotors available, and i've seen a couple 203mm rotors too.... and there are some overkill 223mm rotors out there too...
the biggest things i see with caliper mounting errors are getting the adapter mounted in the correct orientation, and trying to use the wrong mount, entirely.
sidenote: RIM brakes on bikes are actually Really Large diameter DISC brakes.