Between me, my wife, a good friend and his wife and several others I ride with, I don't think there is a duplicate saddle among all of us. It's trial and error. Most of us have a few saddles hanging around that we tried, and that didn't work. Some bike shops may have loaner saddles for trying out, which could provide at least an idea of what might work. Best of luck to ya-hope you don't end up with as many laying around as I do.