Hello Damian,
I can give you some advice on Question #2 for you:
Try a Campagnolo rear derailer with a Regina rear freewheel. Use either standard Campagnolo friction shifters, or either Shimano Light Action (for those on a budget who want Retrofriction) or Simplex Retrofriction levers.
If you must have indexed, I suggest you try some of the late Suntour 7-speed index equipment. They're considerably less fidgety and prone to wear then Shimano's current Hyperglide. It's also a tad easier to adapt them to an older roadbike that may already have, let's say, Suntour Cyclone.
Take care,
-Kurt
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