I'm not a guy (so I'm getting a laugh out of this thread), but, try the LG Alveo short with the ergozone for men chamios. They are pricey, around $130. The guys that I ride with (and us gals for that matter) all ride with these shorts, and they are nice. Good luck.

......I'm still trying to picture this suspension system made from straws.......and I'm trying to stop giggling....