TRUST ME on this one. The harder you look the worse your luck. She'll come along when you LEAST expect it.
But you have to stop expecting it. Forget about girls, ride and be happy. Believe me, one will come along WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!!!
Gotta tell you, my bent attracts people like crazy. EVERY single person I drive by smiles. And a few of the ladies gave me the "eyes" as I went by. Get a bent, you'll be WAY cooler in her eyes.