Originally Posted by Chris L
n which case, you can expect to be single for a long time (which probably isn't such a bad thing).
The fact of the matter is that the human species hasn't really evolved all that much in this area in the last 2 million years or so, and both genders are pretty much attracted by the same things they've always been attracted by. Instinctively, men will always chase physically attractive women because of some primitive instinct about breeding, and women will always chase men who they perceive as being able to "provide" for them, in which any kind of display of financial power is always going to be an advantage. Society often judges someone's wealth or status by the type of car they drive -- even more so than the type of house they live in. That would also offer an explanation as to why so many women (at least in this part of the world) stay with abusive boyfriends/husbands, when they could quite easily find a non-abusive man if they so chose.
Attraction is an instinct, not a choice.
Personally, I've accepted that women aren't going to find me attractive anytime soon, and just decided to focus on the freedom of being single. It's much simpler that way.
I was going to say pretty much the same thing. We like to think we're on evolved species, but we're really just like all other animals - it all boils down to food, sex, and shelter/protection from the elements.
This topic has been discussed in detail before, so I won't beat a rusted frame. It isn't that there aren't any
women who
won't date us car-less guys, it's just that
there are very few of them, so the ratio isn't in our favor. I've been car free for about 4 years now, and must admit that most women seem disinterested in me. Even when I had a piece of sh it car, a few were interested.
If you are really horny, I think there's nothing wrong with getting a prostitute: just rent a car for a day, find out were they are in your area, cruise around, and when you see something you like, pick her up and negotiate a price (probably around $50-100, depending on what services you want
)
Hey, it's much cheaper than buying a car. You could also consider getting an escort, but you won't know what you're getting before she arrives, and they're usually much more expensive than a street walker.