for the bottom bracket - get a bottom bracket tool (cheap)
for the headset - a headset tool is expensive, but you can buy parts to build one from the hardware store (I built one with HighPants and I think the whole thing cost around $4 and worked like a champ) There's also a special wrench for tightening your headset that's around $15
for the cone wrenches, are you rebuilding your hubs?

All in all buying tools is always more fun than having your bike worked on by someone else...