Don't worry about sounding like a jerk, this is a forum you're supposed to sound like a jerk , but yeah..

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.. so basically... when i tighten the handlebar stem inside the tube above the front wheel (as tight as in will go).. it still isn't tight enough to be solidly attached (i had my brother try it too)..