1) If it's not fun, don't do it.
2) Have a beer, on me.

Sounds like you have a case of the mean reds. Time for a time-out. Visit thine local tavern. Count to ten. Forgive the cagers for they know not what they do. Etc. Etc. Remember: It's the weekend!

My ride home was at night tonight, with my wife. Lots of bugs deciding our headlights were simply fascinating!

Also a lot of people out in near-darkness without any lights at all. I often wonder what would happen if two of them met head-on. Reflectors only work if the other guy has lights, my friends.