Have you ever tired WD-40 ?

I've used those wax based lubes (Pedros, I think) and was never really satisfied. If you want a "dry" lube, try Prolink - http://www.progoldmfr.com/. It's petroleum based, goes on wet, but dries quickly. The chain stays quiet longer than using wax based, but not as long as wet lubes. As with dry lubes, they don't hold up well in wet conditions, but seeing you live in San Diego, rain probably isn't an issue. One big plus is dry does not attract crap.

I have ride buddies who swear by White Lightening. Maybe it's the typical boxer v. briefs debate.

(I followed you over from the "degrease new chain" post.)