I have served my time. I'm 46, my kids have graduated from college and live in different states. I cooked and cleaned the first 23 years of marriage. The last 3 years, my husband does it. I do about 30 minutes of housework each week. My husband is a drummer and is in 3 different bands. At least 3 times a week he has band practice at our house. I have to get out. I ride about twice a week with the bike club, about twice a week with my husband, and on my off days, Wed & Thur, I usually do a century or such. Can't wait 'till I retire. I do work 40 hours a week on the midnight shift.