Thanks SteveE.
Sounds like good advise. She wants to ride because she sees how much I enjoy it and would like to share more interests with me. She would like to go on a one day or two day organized ride because those are my favorite and I tend to rave about them.

I suppose some of her motivation is in trying to please me, while my hope is that there is also a sincere interest in the sport as well; it’s still too early to tell.
Maybe I need a bike-specific marriage counselor (I best not use Lances' though).
Also my wife is intimidated by biking in general, but I hope that changes as she is going to take some spinning classes at the Y.
We just got both kids into school so we will finally have some free time to ourselves.